Two unpublished Talking to Strangers

Now, when I’m preparing my new “Talking to strangers” set from Plovdiv & Sofia, Bulgaria, I remembered that Nerve.com skipped publishing these two guys I met in New York. So I decided to give them “15 minutes of fame” here. So here they are – meet Skunk & Kate.

1. Skunk, 24

 

kunk, 24

Where are you from?: I’m from Orange, New Jersey. I moved here nine months ago.

What do you do for a living? I work at a really cool vintage store in Manhattan. I also do vocals for the New York hardcore band Spewing Cum.

Where do you usually meet girls? At parties and bars but mostly on punk rock shows.

Do you think being a musician helps you get girls? We get girls, but not because we’re in a band. But because we like girls and we chase them. We get them drunk.

How would you compare the girls in New Jersey to the girls in New York? : There’s not too much a difference really… But girls in NY are really like “Fuck you, leave me alone, I don’t have time for you”, kind of like prude in a way, stuck up… not all of them, just some.

Are you in a relationship right now? Nooo.. fuck that shit man… I think my longest relationship was probably like two months…

Do you go for hardcore girls or another type of girls? I like hardcore girls, but whatever girl is really willing to be with me, like sexwise, I’ll take them… you know… I don’t care… If you want to touch my penis, I’m willing to let you… I’m serious.

What’s the craziest sex experience you had ? I ate a girl out in public before. We were off tour with my old band and we were performing in a bar in Florida, so I saw a girl that I know and we were making out, and I got on my knees and started eating her out, there were people watching… It was kind of cool. I also had a foursome but it ended up shortly. We were at my friend’s house and his mom came home… We were two guys and two girls.

Did his mom caught you? She walked in and she said my friend’s name – Julio. And I was like “Fuck, I gotta leave”. So he was the first floor and I just opened the window and jumped, half in clothes, half not… Good times.

What about your first time? I was 16 or 17, in New Jersey, on the stairways of my apartment building. There was this girl, she was like the neighborhood slut. All my friends messed up with her, but I was a little bit shy… she was always giving me looks and stuff, but I was so scared, like “What do you want for me. Get away.”, cause I’ve never had sex before. There was a party going on in the building, I’m sitting in front and she came and unzipped my pants and gave me a blowjob! I was in heaven.

What is your secret sexual move? I choke them! It’s not like really choking like “You’re gonna die now”… It’s more like petting a cat… It sets the mood.

If you have to chose one song to have the best sex of your life which one it’s gonna be?: Oh W.A.S.P. – Animal (Fuck like a beast).

2. Kate, 22

Where are you from? I’m from Florida, but I come to New York every summer. I’m a snowbird – I live in Florida when its warm, then I come here when its warm too.

What do you do here? I‘m a nanny and I just love the city.

Are you in a relationship? Yes, since almost two years.

Is your boyfriend in Florida? Yeah.

So how are you guys handling distance? Well, he’s coming to visit in two weeks. I travel around a lot so does he and it just works out.

How old is your boyfriend? He just turned 26.

How did you guys met? We met at a bar, I was trying to take my friend out cause she just broke up with her boyfriend, I was trying to show her guys and I ended up finding a guy.

Did you approached him first or he did? I was with my friend who had friends in his group and then we all started hanging out and that was how it started. Then he took my number and we had our first date in my apartment where I cooked him Chicken Marsala pasta.

How many dates did it took you to sleep together? Over ten. I want first to know the person.

Did you had any high school crushes? Way too many.

Can you tell us about the most remarkable one? Actually I’m gonna see him tonight. I met him at a class, he was the “artsy skater” type of guy and he broke up with me, because one night I drunk too much and I made an assault of myself. I don’t blame him. I just want to meet him and apologize.

Have you seen him since that incident happen? No, that’s gonna be the first time.

What does your boyfriend think of that? He don’t know… I’ll tell him after.

How did you found that guy in New York? Well I was in the city and I facebooked him and I saw that he was living in Brooklyn. So I messaged him that we should meet and and he said yes.

Do you think that you may still have feelings for him? No… I like the guy I’m with, I just want to say I’m sorry.

What do you like the most in the guy you’re dating now? His competitiveness. I’m very competitive so is he, its kind of like game after game in a way. I surf and he surf, we play a lot of sports and we compete for even the smallest thing.

Do you ever get mad at each other? He’s a soy loser (???) , I’m not. I laugh, it doesn’t bother me, but he’s really a soy loser and it kind of makes me happy.

What is the quality in men that you find most attractive? If they can make you laugh and you feel comfortable.

About the look what is the most sexy part? Eyes… just those eyes that you can

stare at and you don’t even realize and then its kind of awkward cause you’ve been staring too much.

What is the most romantic thing a man ever done for you? I was backpacking in Costa Rica and I was dating this Australian guy. I went on a day trip and when I came back he made me this little jar made of baby food, he took off the stuff and in the back he put tape and drew waves and then he put inside shells and water from where we were and then he wrote something cute on top like “Our summer of 2010” or something like that. It was the stupidest thing but it when I got back it was just lying on my bed it was just so cute… I still have it in Florida.

For how long you’ve been seeing hime? Well we both backpacked from Costa Rica to Colombia and then I ran out of money and I had to fly home. That was about three months.

Did it ever happened to you someone to try to do something romantic for you but then it turns out completely wrong? I went on a date with a guy, that took me to an Indian restaurant and the guy was profusely sweating all the time. It was so awkward cause the sweat was literally almost going into the food.

Oh no! I really felt really bad for the guy. That was it. Then I went home, I just couldn’t handle it. I think he felt more embarrassed, he was drenched in sweat.

Have you ever met someone online? No.

Have you ever dated someone who was already in a relationship? I was going on a date with a guy and at the end of the date he said “This is so hard and I can’t just make the decision – should I stay with my girlfriend or go with you”. And I was like “You stay with her, I’ll go”.

So if he said “I’ll leave my girlfriend and go with you” would you be down? No… he would be cheating on me the whole time. I wouldn’t trust him.

Imagine you’re dating someone for really long time and you love him, but then you find out that he cheated on you half year ago and it was just for one night. What would be your reaction – would you break up with him or forgive him? I don’t know. I’ll have to sit for a while. I’ll be brokenhearted for a while.

Have you ever cheated in a relationship? May be in high school. I thought I was dating one guy, and then I started dating another one in the same time. Nothing serious though.

If you’re now in New York and you see the guy of your dreams and he says “Stay with me in New York” would you and leave your boyfriend? It will take a lot more for me to dump my boyfriend and start dating him. One night wouldn’t do it.

How long does it takes you to fall in love? You need honesty, trust, all these things to fall in love. So it takes a while.

Did you said “I love you”first or your boyfriend did? It was me, I was just saying goodbye and I just said “I love you” and he took it by surprise and said it back and we started saying it. This was over an year after we started dating.

by me & Antonio Cuccu.